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I've Been Lying To You About My Sexual Orientation

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I'm coming out as bisexual...it's time I told you the truth. Website in question : https://www.healthline.com/health/lgbtqia-safe-sex-guide#sexual-orientation Talk With Me 1 on 1 : https://www.patreon.com/ArielleScarcella Instagram : http://bit.ly/ArielleInsta Twitter : http://bit.ly/AriTwitter Facebook : http://bit.ly/ArielleFB BUSINESS ONLY : [email protected]
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Ash SIlas (7 months ago)
I'm a trans guy and I totally agree with you. These new definitions of sexual orientation are problematic. I respect you for making this video because Lord knows some sjw's are gonna come after. Only you can know who you are. The whole situation with people trying to label you differently is Bullshit.
Amaretto Punsch (6 months ago)
+Gabrielle Lee I see Chloe on the pic <3 <3 <3 i like it
Ash SIlas (6 months ago)
Jamie wickersham thanks
Jamie wickersham (7 months ago)
I just wanted to say nice pricefield picture!
'Eternal Optimism... (7 months ago)
(Ultimately,) When is passion for Love or Happiness (money, sex, etc.), not always fueled by the variable choice (as Hope) 1st for purpose? Selflessly, Ps. The ultimate empirically valid human causality of Love (3in1 code/pattern) example is that Hope always exists as a perfectly infinite choice, whether we choose to do or not do. Therefore, Love is a choice of free will that is built on blind trust as Hope and reciprocally makes a selfless circle to always inevitably cause Happiness as inner peace. (Human Nature Love Pattern) https://www.facebook.com/notes/eternal-optimism/causality-of-love-cause-and-effect-law-of-love/10157264829300720
Jam Rock (16 days ago)
Clickbait prick
I can't tell if you are serious or kidding, I just watched the first 10 seconds of this video and was about to copy paste this tweet: https://twitter.com/JohnReedForPres/status/1110334079331983362 I think that "#lesbian" is a bullshit umbrella term. Some self proclaimed lesbians enjoyed casual sexual encounters with men and others felt that they had to "perform heterosexuality". Some lesbians feel "my head and heart were swirling" around men. Others don't. It's bullshit. I actually think that "#lesbian" is a bullshit umbrella term and that this word mean little more than "I am homoromantic" or "I date the same sex".
Rosie Olek (1 month ago)
I'm bi and i don't think you're a biphobe.
Abigail Pais (2 months ago)
So brilliantly explained!
PETER Ahrens (2 months ago)
Rafe0522 (2 months ago)
Yo te puedo donar espermas eso es lo que me gustaría donarte
Rafe0522 (2 months ago)
Mami tú eres tortillera gosadora caliente singona cachapera
Mercy Santillan (3 months ago)
myprettygirl (3 months ago)
As someone who actually is bi, I agree with you. Youre a lesbian and I dont think other peoples personal definitions should make you or anyone else question what you know yourselves to be
Miss Communication (3 months ago)
It wasn't clear until halfway through the video. When you said, he started binding his chest. I got so confused. I thought you were talking about someone who was born a guy and asking myself why would he need to to do that.
Taylor ! (3 months ago)
Jesus christ why is every fucking video about trans people, its coming off as obsessive at this point
m0ney40 (3 months ago)
On a liter note. Do you know that you have a strong resemblance to a fabulous Italian singer Giorgia Todrani. Check it out https://youtu.be/Feo26vZxFu0
m0ney40 (3 months ago)
I can I just not care what you? Still love you. PS, I AM BI
sefi36 (3 months ago)
Arielle: If you are bisexual may I have sex with you because you are very attractive.
Nas (3 months ago)
That's still lesbian
Courtney Hull (3 months ago)
LOL! I’m definitely bisexual. I used to think i was a lesbian but later found out i was bisexual. Great video!
Andrew Starling (3 months ago)
What am I when I love a Girl..? What am I when I Love a Boy..? What am I when I love Animals..? What am I when I love Nature..? What am I when I love the Stars..? What am I when I love the universe..? What am I when I love to Love..? What am I..? I am Me.
Penyrad (3 months ago)
I felt bad for you even having to act and say those things.
Julia Lebel (3 months ago)
Nope, you're not, coming from someone whom myself am bi. I'd say that the definition I use for my own identity is being attracted to both masculinity and femininity. I've got a very specific attraction to both testosterone and estrogen dominant bodies, both penises and vulvas, etc, etc. This doesn't mean that I'm not/can't be attracted to trans people, but I tend to be attracted to people with distinct masculine or feminine qualities or aesthetics.
Murp 63 (4 months ago)
Isabel Magnolia (4 months ago)
Well it’s fine for someone to say a straight man married to a trans women are able to call them him a gay man and not straight, then wtf!? No seriously your of course lesbian you love women, even if you dated a women in pre op to man, you are still lesbian if you go back to women after. I would say you where bisexual if you where with the pre op man for the rest of your life, but if you where with them for a long time then went straight back to women (yes pun intended, sorry), your lesbian, because technically you dated them as a women first. It’s like the straight man dating trans women, your still straight, cause your going to go back to women. Sorry for long comment but love your videos, I’m new to your channel, also lesbian and don’t care, peace. 👍😄
Michael Lackey (4 months ago)
Is cool you is beautiful good woman
Jam Rock (4 months ago)
Nice moustache
Jon Roux (4 months ago)
Sexual orientation aside....You've got a killer smile :D
Avalyn Lund-Goldstein (4 months ago)
Yeah if it was still before he came out then your sexuality hasn't changed
Jett Jo johnson (4 months ago)
Just because you have gone to a pet store, dose not make you a pet. yes, a trans man is a man, he is wired male. you did date a man , next , your still a lesbians even if he was a man with ding ding I was attracted to a trans man and we did make out he was looking like a hot Butch Dyke and acting like any other other Butch lesbian. He had dated a friend and she was also Butch. Just that when he outed him self , I just could not reconnect with him like I did when he was being stealth Dyke. We just where friends , but after a week or so , no , he was wired male and there was no romantic relationship possibility, but wow, he did have a body of a hot strong Dyke but crap. then I felt bad for him , I did, relate with him . I got the problem he had, But I still looked good as a girl. But also dressed Butch. I never was a big fan of femmy clothing , boxers are comfy, bras , not so much . binders, that was a doable tap. yes, back then , I was arrested for having a bra on , it was a Devent charges, yep. The judge ordered me in to detransisoning , and I had to appear non female. or I was facing felony Devent charges, if I was cought . I was almost a D cup. cops did show up at my door a number of times . but the Girls helped me bind , all there was back then was ace bandages. I had 6 Months until I could move out of that county. I had passed out a number of times and a number of the other girls where also moving . first time I could not even carry a box to the uhaul. There was another trans who got busted a second time , she was in the middle of the woman's clothing aria, she was looking at the woman's short cut leather jackets. The wall Mart manager had turns her in, plus it was on video. 15 years in prison and when she got out, she had to register a a sex afender. in the 90s my doctor was a about 2 hours away , she was adamant that I get out of that county now. when she first found out that I moved there , she told me that if she thought I levied there , she would never have allowed me on HRT . But I was in HRT over a year before I moved there. oh, lesbians where also a big target there. kinda why most my friend from there all moved away about a year after I did.
Omarus collasus (4 months ago)
I was going to be disappointed Because lesbians are seen as traumatized women. This shit can impact gay men eventually because it goes from”lesbians don’t exist” to “gay men don’t exist, it’s a rule of philosophy anyways.
Janell Davis (4 months ago)
Girl... you are so lesbian.
Paul McFarland (5 months ago)
Being from an older generation I have know several lesbians who both dated and had sex with cis males in there youth. At that time they were in a hugely antigay environment and were trying desperately to fit in. When they found a friend or moved to a city they found the support to come out.
Xxbabygirljanet (5 months ago)
Watch some men are gonna slide in her DMs Lol
cactus - kun (5 months ago)
Cardboard Box (5 months ago)
Most of ya'll are
Raki Biswas (5 months ago)
It doesn't matter what you are.you are just a beautiful person ❤❤
Miriam Waters (5 months ago)
Saying what we've all been thinking ❤️
luckysmokerings666 (5 months ago)
I mean your channel was one of the first introductions I had to the gay community's perception of bi people and the only video on your channel discussing bisexuality (at the time, this was five or six years ago maybe?) involved lesbians essentially just calling bi girls cheaters, sluts, and liars. I don't know your personal character, but seeing that as a young person trying to figure myself out really hurt. I dunno. You have impact on people that you can't even fathom. I found other spaces where I felt welcomed, but your channel (at the time) clearly was not one of them. Doesn't mean you haven't changed since then, but that video still has impact. Obviously other people don't get to define your sexuality, you get to.
The Good Hippie (5 months ago)
You are literally not a lesbian if you have sex with men. Sorry.
AnnaLand - Gaming (5 months ago)
This is what I've been thinking for a long time.
Ghostwriter 86 (6 months ago)
She has used the lesbian women's homosexuality to get a community and now that she has enough fame, she tells you the truth. One should not play with the emotions for people to generate clicks and earn money.
Vobiscum Satanas (6 months ago)
Clickbaiter pos
Alexander Brown (6 months ago)
You are fucking nuts
Jim Waters (6 months ago)
I understand..but in my earlier life in college I fell in love with a roommate who was Trans ..back in the early 70’s there wasn’t much information at all. She was actually a physical male..in fact had quite a beautiful full penis. She was cute, very soft and soon I found to be living her life as a woman...though had not had even begun transition yet. I found myself giving into her feelings..to the point I was thinking I might be gay. I desired her, loved looking at her body and finally at Christmas time we made love,,with both of us bottoming and topping. Oops..never something I could ever talk about. I was an Army Officer..! An officer who enjoyed all aspects of physical love with her. Talk confusion. A friend of hers said I was gay..I loved Oral and anal with her. But..thing us ..only with her. The thought of sex with any other man was a total turn off to me. What She and I did I loved..thinking of it with another guy..no way. Finally we both saw a counselor ..who really helped us. Long story.. I was recruited as what you might call a special operations officer... a spy I guess. One of my duties was lying..going undercover ..living a double life. I killed terrorists and hurt bad people too. To protect her, and myself ..we broke up. When I saw her again it was 12 yrs. she was married..had had full SRS surgery..and adopted children. Whew..never really told that full story. J W
Tammy Morgan-Heath (6 months ago)
Can you just be like my girlfriend already crushes on u for like 8 years now 😁
I’m shocked! 😱😨😰
Too Lazy (6 months ago)
Do you see the video? CLICKBAIT
Kylie Rollings (6 months ago)
Bro thank you. I’m a lesbian and I’ve been out for a very long time, long before all this weird bullshit. It feels like cis homosexuals aren’t allowed to have opinions 😂
Zark Fuckerberg (6 months ago)
Thank you!
J Mc (6 months ago)
I like your videos. Labeling us I think limits us. I think expressing that we are all on the spectrum that is not static is beneficial.
M V (6 months ago)
What is the song playing in the beginning!? I can’t find it
K H (6 months ago)
You're a lesbian, because how he saw himself has nothing to do with you.
heykelly (6 months ago)
MY GOD. When will you realize nobody cares who you would fuck?! Your sexuality has literally nothing to do with others identities.
Sophia Williams (6 months ago)
AHHHH oh my lord I got so freaking scared! Not that there would be anything wrong if u where bi but like ur my fav lesbian sooo
Petteri Tuovinem (6 months ago)
SO there is a change between us <3
Ireallyreally Hategoogle (6 months ago)
Arielle, that title is very clickbaity. Maybe you could had "(not)" at the end.
Ireallyreally Hategoogle (6 months ago)
Arielle, according to Youtube ALL your videos will always be controversial because you are a lesbian and you talk about sex and both are controversial for them.
Ireallyreally Hategoogle (6 months ago)
SEX as in Sexual Orientation
Sun Stone (6 months ago)
Beware the "Label Trap". Sexuality is a spectrum, words tend to be cubbyholes. Our language is adapting to our changing views about sex and sexuality, but the operative word is "changing", we aren't there yet. If you are comfortable with a one-word label fine, if you need many words to define yourself also fine, all you sacrifice is a little efficiency, just never let another person define you.
XO (6 months ago)
wcagosta (6 months ago)
Very witty, Arielle!! Thank you for your videos, kisses from Greece!
Sarah RTH (6 months ago)
this gave me a whole fright
Common Sense (6 months ago)
Who cares!!!  This is all messed up!!
Gabrielle Arce (6 months ago)
I agree with you. You are attracted to females and the female body so you are a lesbian. Someone transitioning can identify as a woman, but they are not female, as you said in a previous video. I am attracted to women and a female body. I might be attracted to more masculine females, but I am attracted to what a female body comes with which, as you said, comes with softer skin and different smell.
Zzzz zzz (6 months ago)
F off you got me love you!!
Eran Ariel (6 months ago)
Arielle, I adore your channel, great humor and absolutely hilarious. I can definitely perceive you being attracted sexually to men as well as to woman.
Esme n'haMaire (6 months ago)
Superb, as ever, Arille! xx
HE Rialp (6 months ago)
Who cares of you are a lesbian or bi... Sexual Orientation is overrated. What matters is how you define yourself and LOVE is flexible. I am proud of you and just keep doing what you're doing =3
May Son (6 months ago)
For me Im sexually attracted to men because dicks.... But I also date females alot. Im not sexually attracted to them and wouldnt think of having sex with them which is hard cuz it means I need to be careful with what female I date n make sure they are asexual and not interested in having sex with me.
bumble (6 months ago)
it's not like someone is a female before they transition to male. they were always a man. just like how you don't become depressed the moment a doctor diagnoses you with depression. you were always depressed. now you just have the paperwork for it. yikes.
iamayoutubeaccount (6 months ago)
Also, sex = /= gender. A trans guy may identify as male but are physically female
iamayoutubeaccount (6 months ago)
Mmmm no "depressed" isn't an identity
Emelie Rosqvist (6 months ago)
I define my sexual orientation
john boone (7 months ago)
i got one word in and said what's up dude oh , not a dude but a dude , its ok i am transguitar and transghost 2 , but it is cool you can be transfluent so what the fuxk does it matter , wait now i don't want labels , this is just confusing , ok i am just gonna drop the trans and be fluent , like guitarfluent or ghostfluent ,i don't know labels, no labels , how would i write that , geezzz guys it just so confusing when you cant decide who you are or wanna be when you grow up , oh we are grown , hummmmm…………………………...
alice (7 months ago)
well that was a rollercoaster... but I loved it! labels are so stupid imo, I firmly believe that everyone should be a free ass motherfucker (hello, janelle monae lol)
Rlambevlogs (7 months ago)
Ur my fav lgbt YouTuber
mary jane (7 months ago)
Shannon Equality Barber (7 months ago)
You had me going for a second! But, you know what? These twitter trolls are fucked up. You're a lesbian. There are people out there on a quest to erase homosexuals, especially lesbians. They have taken our spaces, redefined our culture and history, and are appropriating our labels. The healthline situation is bullshit. As far as I am concerned, they are completely discredited. Oh, and P.S. - it's bullshit like this that makes some people go down the road of biphobia and transphobia. This insanity is hurting the very cause they say they are trying to advance. I admit I bought into their shit in the name of being "open minded" before. No more. This shit has gone too far. I am all for advancing rights of ALL PEOPLE.Bisexuality is valid. Trans people are the gender they say they are. End of. But a lot of this narrative that has gone into policing the sex, dating, and identity lives of gay people has gone way over the line, and I am personally sick of it. This idea that a pre T, pre Op trans man who was not out to his lesbian girlfriend suddenly makes her bisexual instead of gay since he transitioned is just insane. Thank you for keeping it real on this channel. I, unlike some purists out there, don't need to agree with every word you utter to think you are awesome. Sincerely, A fellow Gold Star Lesbian
Hailyn S (7 months ago)
Just fuck and love whoever the fuck you want. If anyone has a problem with that and NEED you choose a label, that's their problem.
WickedLexa (7 months ago)
I love you
Naxxseb (7 months ago)
Gosh i am trans man, and I got lost, mmm well but you look really cute, I would date you, but i DINDT GET IT if you will accept. xD
Caty M (7 months ago)
I really love this.
Caty M (7 months ago)
Black widow (7 months ago)
It doesn’t matter what u call yourself! You can be gay and then one day fall in love with a man, or be straight and fall in with love with a woman! You love who u love. Your still a lesbian because it’s what u prefer. Your door just isn’t shut all the way. U have an open mind and accept all types of love and that just makes u a good person. Not bisexual, cuz ur not constantly dating both genders. Your a lesbian that has a heart pure of gold and willing to accept any type of love. So to me your just even more of an amazing person!
Matthew Paul (7 months ago)
Bigender homosexual
Matthew Paul (7 months ago)
Such click bait
Shortylaughs21 (7 months ago)
love you <3
Rich MAC (7 months ago)
People worry way, way too much about labels. My wife enjoys having sex with women as well as guys but got all upset when I mentioned being bisexual. Who gives a shit. Most people are sexually a shade of gray as opposed to being black or white. You don't have to apologize, rationalize or explain who or what you are or what attracts you. Do what makes YOU feel good and screw those that need to be judgmental
Arianna Tuttle (7 months ago)
Perfectly said. I’m a lesbian who has dated trans men and trans women but has only ever really been attracted to female body parts. It’s nice to hear from someone else that my sexuality is still valid whether I like penises or not, regardless of who they’re attached to. I’m behind you all the way, Arielle! You’re an epic lesbian and if someone tries to shame you for being who you are they can bite it!
Gemma Elizabeth (7 months ago)
Still a lesbian bc it was before transition
Uncon TROLLable (7 months ago)
It's sad that political correctness made her have to hide her attraction to some men. Heterophobia is tragic. #bornthisway
Spirit Hawk (7 months ago)
Jesus fucking christ this made me cry, it feels like nobody will ever be attracted to me or if they are they'll not awknowledge me as male until I transition, which I can't do for quite a while. God this made me so dysphoric, how is anyone going to take me seriously as a man until I transition
Lori Alise Vlogs (7 months ago)
🙄 shouldnt you able to come to your own conclusion ??? Oh god actor ... annoying
Sarah Flara (7 months ago)
Ok so you should now just call people MULTISEXUAL because its so damn confusing these days!
dopeymark (7 months ago)
Who cares lady?
Pauline Jefferson (7 months ago)
Who gives a shit.
punk-as-puck (7 months ago)
the point is, you were attracted to someone who was a man, but that doesn't make you bisexual, but it does make you not a "gold star" lesbian.
Michael Merritt (7 months ago)
punk-as-puck they were a woman tho.
Chloane Abi Allam (7 months ago)
You don't have to label yourself
kinfeofspaghetti (7 months ago)
Most of the trans "women" attacking lesbians for rejecting them are basicallt just mad you won't have sex with them, or they're jealous that lesbians have a pretty good measure of social acceptance and have had it for a while.
Miniatur Sonne (7 months ago)
I always thought sexuality is fluid so in one part of your life your are e.x. homosexual, 10 years later your are e.x. heterosexual. so meh. any kind of relationship is good (unless it is abusive/toxic). be true to yourself and your partner :D
Michael Merritt (7 months ago)
Miniatur Sonne I guess the far right Christians were right. Gay people can change after all.
Palehorse (7 months ago)
You dont have to explain yourself to anybody..be with who ever you want to be with,f&ck labels.
Sandmanofamarillo (7 months ago)
There’s a dude that exists that you would bang I know because it me
Sandmanofamarillo (7 months ago)
That’s why you got a gold star
Sandmanofamarillo (7 months ago)
Gold Star lesbian means lesbians who bang guys
Fatboybug (7 months ago)
First off please do not be hard on yourself for being you. No you did not lie to us,life is about discovery and I think you made a realization of what you like (sexually) and had to ponder the thought for a while until you were sure. You have a channel here where you educate a lot of people about lifestyles,sexuality and things some folks just can't ask their neighbor.So go easy on yourself, enjoy life and please keep up the good work.

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