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Tea Consent

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Hermaeus Mora (1 day ago)
Haha, this is great, now do a video about women lying about rape or women that mistake the regret of being a whore with having been raped.
SuckTitles (1 day ago)
Why not make one yourself?
Content Warning (2 days ago)
Tea, it's a bad idea! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yX6va9glqgA
Content Warning (2 days ago)
So you're saying we should dip our balls sacks in water and whamen ?
Zukulent Mike (2 days ago)
What if some douchebag tea-bagged me? Do I call the bully hunters or what?
Ryan Mechan (3 days ago)
What if I offer someone tea and they agree but only if I pour it down their throat?
Oliver Sansum (3 days ago)
We watched this is a school assembly The kids lost there shit
tripti shukla (4 days ago)
The best one 😂
James Rios (5 days ago)
I hate when she makes me make the tea, but then decides to drink it with my friend instead.
Husain Aljamal (5 days ago)
My recommendation is that you need to pull out your phone record asking if they want tea and as they drink the tea keep recording just in case they change or don't change their mind so if they say you made them drink tea you have evidence that they grabbed the tea buy themselves and slurrped it down all by themselves. Tea consent is very important and is fundamental to life itself
Iris Arnold (7 days ago)
my step mom showed this to me when I was 9 yrs old and i was so fucking confused
Jinny Choe (7 days ago)
Thank you sincerely for a great educational video!!
Rory Kirklnd (8 days ago)
i love this video so much i've watched it mutable times just because i love it and their is one thing that i think should be added to this video "if the person feels pressured or threatened to say yes out of fear they don't really want tea" and i know its not appliable in this situation that youve spelled out and i wish that with this their was a way to mention age and how they could be too young to want tea (maybe you could use a infant? im not sure. i dont even know how it could be put into this situation but i wish their was a way to put that in this video) i know the likly hood that this comment is like 0% but i hope it does get seen
Ben The Trashbag (8 days ago)
Imagine waking up in the middle of the night and seeing a cup of tea at the foot of your bed 😂
Meep Meepinton (8 days ago)
if you ask someone if they want tea, and they don’t say yes or no and you make them the tea, don’t keep begging them to drink the tea. if they drink the tea and look like they don’t like it and aren’t enjoying the tea, don’t tell them to keep drinking, because they might just feel uncomfortable saying no
Aniolel Seer (9 days ago)
Also do not say no half through if you truly do not want the cup of tea. Just say no thanks.
Pernille Hardenberg (9 days ago)
#metea 🤤💬☕️? 🙋‍♀️💬 YES = ☕️ ✅ 🤷‍♀️💬 MAYBE = ☕️ ⚠️ 🙅‍♀️💬 NO! = ☕️ ⛔️ 💆‍♀️... 💤 = ☕️ ⛔️ + 🚑
Maximillian Ford (10 days ago)
When my teacher showed this in class, my mate and I couldn't breathe from laughing but no one else found it funny. Most awkward thing ever. They couldn't even hear the video cos we were laughing so much lmao.
Sue Butcher (10 days ago)
Simple, clear, powerful. Thanks.
KDJ (11 days ago)
We watched this in class!!!
redblueredblue100 (11 days ago)
"I'm going to make myself a cup of tea." Do you mean to say that you are going to touch yourself?
Emersen Boist (11 days ago)
Love this video
Potato Kitty (11 days ago)
After watching this, my mom asked "Is the tea almost ready?" XD
Joel Neto (11 days ago)
Cristiano Ronaldo has to see this
Alisha Creaney (12 days ago)
At school today my teacher played this one by accident 😂😂😂
N A M W A R D (12 days ago)
Nice masturbation joke
N A M W A R D (12 days ago)
I fuck dead people. It’s nice
the real kat (16 days ago)
THIS IS SO IMPORTANT
Chris 987654 (16 days ago)
If you learnt anything about consent and sex from this video then you were raised terribly it is likely unlikely this video is gonna help. Rape is not a trivial accident.
BadZed (16 days ago)
What about coffee
Yarda (11 days ago)
you mean anal?
nikk woody (17 days ago)
Great video... but why the f-bombs in the first few seconds of this? Not needed at all. :-( Please, edit them out and repost, thanks!
v1tell _ (18 days ago)
hey kid want some tea?
Yarda (11 days ago)
there is this thing called age of consent. i am pretty sure you don't need that for tea, but you might wanna check the age for other things, just so you don't get burnt...
Andrew Egan (18 days ago)
What if she was drunk when she agreed to the cup of tea?
Lilliam Pumpernickel (18 days ago)
WHAT IF SHE CLAIMED I MADE THE BEST TEA BUT I FIND HER ON THE FUCKING TABLE DRINKING MY BEST FRIENDS TEA???????
ariana avila (18 days ago)
@simplynailogical
N.A.K.I (19 days ago)
Fuckin skrald Camilla sent me
Hamiltrash (19 days ago)
“Unconscious people don’t want tea.” No shit sherlock
Rachel Beaulieu (19 days ago)
how am I now just seeing this, I love it!
Apple Juice Simpson (20 days ago)
Can I reuse my tea bags? Or do I just throw them out after drinking the tea?
Yarda (11 days ago)
I wouldn't reuse them, the tea tends to be kinda weak if you do...
Slurpwis (20 days ago)
autistic
Jazzy (12 days ago)
+atm 487 This is autistic. You're nuts if you think the majority of people don't understand what consent is.
atm 487 (20 days ago)
What
Fletcher Stratearrow (20 days ago)
America is a nation of coffee drinkers! Dump that tea in the harbor!
wolfie 1234 (20 days ago)
Life lesson : just make coffie
wolfie 1234 (20 days ago)
My teacher made me watch this in sex education and i couldn't stop laughing
SL W (20 days ago)
How sad we live in an age where we need this video.
Audrey Georges (21 days ago)
I'm going to go make myself a cup of tea ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Jeremy Bullard (21 days ago)
I wholeheartedly agree with this. Completely. Without reservation. ... but do y'all realize that the exact same dynamic applies to taxes as well? Something to consider ;-)
Brokenscam (21 days ago)
What if I ask them if they want tea, then they say yes, I make it and they drink, but the next morning they phone me telling me that they take away the consent they gave me last night?
Grizlerber (22 days ago)
Sober (no drugs or alcohal), non coerced (not asking them over and over again until they give in, blackmail them, or saying "you owe me") enthusiastic consent from a persons of the legal age.
Ian H (22 days ago)
That’s the problem, the other party can be completely ok with it but later [like when a certain movement becomes trendy] they want to change the their tune and bring allegations against someone.
atm 487 (20 days ago)
Are you implying women just make allegations because they hate men?
Hester Edwards (22 days ago)
This video is actually English, I just realised that the voiceover is American. Lol the tea theme is not as relevant, if it’s not in England
Santenoturtle (23 days ago)
"I'm gonna go make myself a cup of tea" The analogy he was previously making implies that he's doing something questionable. Just saying.
Robert McDonald (23 days ago)
I find it really sad, but telling that when I bring up this wonderful video, I am bombarded with Porn ads.
Santenoturtle (24 days ago)
We watched this at my school today and me and everyone else just laughed like mad whenever the stick figure forced the tea down the other's throat.
waj9876 (24 days ago)
Is there anyone who actually, seriously doesn't understand how consent works? I mean it feels like a lot of weight is put on the idea that "some people just aren't understanding consent" when it's probably more like "some people are just horrible human beings who don't *care* about consent."
TheDutchharpist (1 day ago)
Thank you so much for this comment, this is very true! Not to mention the romanticization of stalking behavior and surprise kisses in these movies!! Popculturedetective is an excellent resource here on youtube to explore if you want to know more about what is wrong with many movies' and therefore our cultural depiction of romance, sex, and consent.
Batzarro (1 day ago)
Lots of people don't understand consent because nobody sat down and explained it to us. When that happens, all you have to go on is what happens in movies, which tends to be "rape is bad" and "rape is specifically grabbing someone by the forearms and fucking them."
Meep Meepinton (8 days ago)
id also say this takes out the get out of jail free card for some rapist. they may know what they did was wrong but say “well it’s not rape because of x, y and z” tell them explicitly what rape is and if they do the same shit then you know for a fact that they knew what they were doing and it isn’t blurred
TheDutchharpist (9 days ago)
Consider whether you would interpret a 'not-no', or someone not saying no, as a yes. The problem surrounding consent is that MANY people consider 'not-no' as a 'yes', while actual consent is saying 'YES'. A 'not-yes' is a definite NO. That is where a lot of victim blaming also comes from: '(s)he didn't say no', while the point should be: 'did (s)he say yes?'. You can imagine many ambiguous situations in which lines can get blurred if you consider a 'not-no' as a yes. For instance, when someone is considering saying yes to tea, but is unsure. Or when someone is afraid to say 'no' to tea. What many people do not get, is that they do not want tea if they didn't say yes to tea, and nothing else.
Anthony Chopra (25 days ago)
always good to be careful
Ari Begbie (25 days ago)
I HAVE NEVER KNOWN IS HE STILL TALKING ABOUT THE ANALOGY AT THE END OR DOES HE JUST WANT A CUP OF TEA
Zouhair Boumraya (26 days ago)
what if you say YES to the cup of tea and enjoy it. Then regret it later, or your friends tell you that you should not drink it, or your parents find out you drunk a cup of tea or.........!?????? Then YES would change rapidly to NO and a man life is destroyed.
Emo bands Are life (27 days ago)
Isn’t this the from a British police force?
Hulk (28 days ago)
I just had a cup of tea.
Jaxx Brat (29 days ago)
But dead people do want tea
Paxton Ghandi (1 month ago)
"I'm going to go make myself a cup of tea" hmmm... ;)
Husky Plays (1 month ago)
They showed this during a "Abusive Relationship" assembly at my high school, and, oh my fucking god. Even the seniors lost their minds.
Gregorie Morales (1 month ago)
Is this where tbag came from?
carultch (24 days ago)
No, "T-bag" came from testicle bag. A form of typically male-on-male sexual assault where a man rubs his balls on a passed out drunk man's face. I remember witnessing it at a party and regret thinking nothing of it other than a childish prank. In retrospect, that was sexual assault.
Lewis Francis-Drew (1 month ago)
haha just dont make tea pour coffee on them 5 head
Seriously Dude Gaming (1 month ago)
Yeah fuck off
Martita R. (1 month ago)
Fucking genius
Fleek. (1 month ago)
HAHAHHAHAHAHAH wtf
Tropolate (1 month ago)
But Sharing is caring.
A Linsey (1 month ago)
I died at the last Part. "Im going to make myself a cup of tea".... XD XD
ANT-METAL (1 month ago)
What if you had some tea and the other person wanted some tea, but your tea had some disease in it that could kill the other person and you gave them your tea knowing of the threat, would that be legal in California?
James D2093 (1 month ago)
Coffee?
Yarda (11 days ago)
anal?
Brady Shaver (1 month ago)
Also if you accept and willingly drink the tea, but then when you realize that you really didn't like it that much and you kind of feel like shit for drinking it, you can't turn around and say they forced it on you.
WayWard Trout (1 month ago)
I dunno, i might like waking up to morning tea tbh.
מנחם ויצמן (1 month ago)
😂😂😂
Liulfr Úlfablóð (1 month ago)
Fun fact; this is standard training material for the U.S. Army. I swear to god if you ask a soldier if he'd like a cup of tea randomly he'd more than likely die laughing.
Drater Adonail (1 month ago)
We were shown this shit in the US Army for SHARP classes
Sumo (1 month ago)
I fucking love tea
MrLeviNielsen (1 month ago)
If tea is sex, British people are whores
CA AD (1 month ago)
Who wants tea? It is okay if you do not want my tea.
Sydney Ling (1 month ago)
We watched this for camp.
Kawai_Kitten (1 month ago)
i prefer coffee in my taste
MsDrkirby (1 month ago)
I wanted to use this in my class but cannot because you chose to say f*ck twice in the first 30 seconds. You have seriously limited your reach by making that choice. FYI.
Nick C (1 month ago)
This sounds like Coco Peru
tweetiebirdism (1 month ago)
Now I’m going to feel awkward asking my teen Gkids if they want some tea. Why the tea metaphor???
cat luva (1 month ago)
What if they say no to tea but ask for coffee? I wasn't planning on making coffee because sometimes the filter breaks and coffee grounds get all over. But now I feel pressured to give them coffee because they don't want tea. And I offered a beverage.
carultch (24 days ago)
If you can't deliver the beverage someone requests, and they are unwilling to accept any beverage you can offer, don't serve them any beverage at all. Politely apologize to your guest that you are unable to fulfill their preferences, and leave it to them to find what they want on their own. Someone asks for coffee and doesn't want tea, you can say all you have is tea and maybe they'll change their mind, but that's really as far as you can go. How this relates to sex and consent? You make an offer for vaginal sex. She declines because she has a yeast infection, and suggests anal instead. You don't want to give anal because you just don't swing that way, so you counteroffer oral. She doesn't want oral because she doesn't like its taste. You can't find any act you can agree to do together. Bottom line is, no sex happens and you go your separate ways.
Thenu De Alwis (1 month ago)
Watched this for the first day of university. Like 1000 kids it was halarious.
Emily W (1 month ago)
My university just showed this to us for orientation day.
Thomas (1 month ago)
What about teabagging?
Brenna Lynn (1 month ago)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kP9Rs0pjHjw&list=PL8qbPCRdbF1H6s_cIiX5d6xinv7Pnx5Gw this song is about consent...it's a little dark but I think it really drives home the whole "No" part of consent :)
Urszula Mucha (1 month ago)
Can i make Polish version and mark You as copyright owner? You are great!
Marcel Gamache (1 month ago)
nice
Azathoth _ (1 month ago)
What if I reaaaaalllly want them to drink my tea like I go through the trouble of making tea, and they keep changing their mind but I reaaaalllllly want them to drink my tea😜
carultch (24 days ago)
If they keep giving you mixed messages on if they want tea or not, then stop inviting them over for tea.
Pim Berry Jerry (1 month ago)
My school = lets have sex education, *shows video* My class after sex education : do you want tea?
Alana Talley (1 month ago)
0:07 was that a masturbation joke?😂😂
lori thompson (1 month ago)
If you offer "tea" to someone who has been drinking alcohol to the point of being drunk then they can't give reliable consent...get it people? So don't be surprised or offended if​ they don't want your brand of tea the next day....
fan1008 (1 month ago)
As if today couldn't get any worse! I came home early from work and I caught my girlfriend drinking a cup of big black tea............
Ricky Mohar (1 month ago)
What if she asks for tea, finishes half of the cup of tea, and decides she doesn’t like it?
Abolfazl Saravani (1 month ago)
I have alot of team, any girl wants a cup? or two?
Emma Pizzey (1 month ago)
Please please please could you add a bit? You don’t explain the issue of actually agreeing to having a cup of tea but find out that you are given coffee which you don’t like but the drink maker says you have to drink it anyway.....
xlukas (1 month ago)
Oh, so that is what Tea Party movement was all about...
carultch (24 days ago)
Nope. Completely different meaning of the word tea. Tea was an acronym that stood for "Taxed Enough Already", and was also a reference to the Boston Tea Party event in the American Revolution, where the people of Boston raided a ship delivering tea and dumped the crates of tea in to the ocean, as a protest to the tax policy associated with the tea. I don't get why the rebels didn't just .... not drink tea... if they didn't like the tax policy that went with it.
Corn For Free (1 month ago)
What if they said yes, you made them tea, then they said not anymore and you were respectful and didn't force tea down their throat is it still ok to go wow you kinda suck

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