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Don't Say This To A Bisexual... | Arielle Scarcella

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MICKIE GEE (23 days ago)
thank you so *FUCKINGGGGGGGGG* much for this
Kai Anderson (5 months ago)
Make a video about gender dysporia
hamster ville (10 months ago)
I love girls and I like boys
Keely Villagomez (11 months ago)
LAMO YASSSS
BB-Chan (1 year ago)
I personally don't get offended if someone don't wanna date me because of my sexuality. I just think they are not for me then. I need someone who loves me for me not just one part of me.
Bethany Williams (1 year ago)
STOP TRYING TO SPEAK FOR BI PEOPLE
Starr Jinx (1 year ago)
Sometimes my boyfriend honestly pisses me off.. I came out to him and he got upset i hadn't told him sooner.. Then he said "are you gonna leave me for a girl now?" and honestly i almost started crying, seriously, it was hard enough coming out to him but then him judging and yelling at me? Yeah no
Whiteness the Tail (1 year ago)
I'm bisexual and I'm very ad fended if we have a girl we don't just go up to them and say I'm lesbian know I'm still bi you idoit also I won't. Just cheat and get a boy after
A. E. (1 year ago)
Honestly can't say how much I appreciate you shedding some light on bisexuality.
Arynn Is A Bird (1 year ago)
omg these fucking trigger me so bad
Deutsche Hierarchie (1 year ago)
Unfortunately as a bisexual, I can relate to all these stupid questions. Straight people just cant seem to get it through their thick skulls as to what being bisexual means. I like both genders equally! Geeze.. Morons.
Gamer Girl (1 year ago)
my mom is all of this!
Slushie Furrz (1 year ago)
Me: *watches* *noticing "she" and "her" and "another girl"* Me: What about bi guy's? why is isn't this called "Don't Say This To A Bisexual Girl..." XD
16Nire61 (1 year ago)
"So, when you finally start dating someone, you become straight or gay, right? You aren't bi anymore?" A friend of mine had this asked of her once. He legitimately thought that because she was dating a man, she had become straight. -_- That's not how it works, folks.
Mary Holmes (1 year ago)
Your understanding, or more so your motivation to help others understand in all aspects you cover is extremely empowering. You're an amazing human being
Kyle Simpson (2 years ago)
Why don't you date a bisexual girl and see how long it will last, that love dick , can't do without it , girl you will be carpet munchkin in vane
Jenny 2.0 (2 years ago)
But what gets on my tits is when bi girls who have girlfriends then call themselves lesbians. Respect labels! Please don't mislabel yourselves.
Jenny 2.0 (2 years ago)
But what gets on my tits is when bi girls who have girlfriends then call themselves lesbians. Respect labels! Please don't mislabel yourselves.
Parallel Parker (2 years ago)
so true!
Am H (2 years ago)
A hundred likes
Just No (2 years ago)
I sorta still feel bad for being bisexual
Beautia Makeup (2 years ago)
Are any other bisexuals watching this?
Faith Maddasion (1 year ago)
Beautia Makeup yup
Lav Ram (2 years ago)
Oh my god she is soooo cool usually no offence lesbian youtubers like to put us down and say stuff like "what that actually exists?" Like Obviously!! How do you think we got here but she's my newest favorite person in the world besides my family of course
rotttkid (2 years ago)
oh my god. Jesus this is very hard not to get mad at
LaceeLasers (2 years ago)
0:23 when I came out to my parents my dad seriously asked me that question. No joke. I wanted to smack him in the head lol.
Ashley Albright (2 years ago)
some bisexuals already know which they prefer...I'm bi but I prefer girls and I am a girl.
Ivan (2 years ago)
Rebecca Albright me too
Nonesense Speaker (2 years ago)
Yes!
Sheila Bianconi (2 years ago)
I came out at 19 years old in 1989. I played the Lesbian card and waved the rainbow flag.. been with my butch lesbian partner for 19 years now and I am in a relationship with a man for the last 6 years AND NO, we are not all having a threesome. I think labels belong on soup cans!. If someone is going to cheat they will cheat and it's not about sharing partners, I think all these comments from Young Baby Dykes and Lesbians shows that these womyn need more time to evolve as a person.. be it lesbian, bi, trans or questioning.. respect is respect and respecting others is more important because its not your choice doesn't mean its bad.. when your a consenting adult. I am 46 now and my Butch Lesbian Dyke partner for 19 years is now Transgender.. and my str8 boyfriend is still str8... so is it fair to say, I am just attracted to people.. and doesn't matter what's in their jeans.
runrockwater (2 years ago)
wats straight privilege?
David R. (2 years ago)
As a bisexual, i love when non bisexuals understand.
Cadencio (1 year ago)
bi bunny I love your picture
Lesbian Axolotl (1 year ago)
me too
Lav Ram (2 years ago)
PREACH!! /(-_-)\
Nonesense Speaker (2 years ago)
Right? It's so amazing.
Kawaii Kocha (2 years ago)
Same
Zeglo vrk (2 years ago)
if beople stoped bashing Lesbiens gays bisexuals and transformers den we woulden have you funny comentewe to lesten to
kpop trash (2 years ago)
im bi but whats wrong with that
Moon Departures (2 years ago)
"Are you a lesbian when you date a girl and straight when you date a guy?" RELATABLE ASF.
Ashley Dolnack (2 years ago)
This could not be more true
Darkuda x (2 years ago)
1:03 I want to see these two girls kiss each other...
Solar Wind (2 years ago)
I've recently come out as bi to two girls, and it was really awkward. One said something like 'Nowadays everybody can love who they want. I don't care as long as you don't make a move on me'. She was joking, but I found it quite inappropriate to say this in a situation like this. Though, some assume that they (they're twins) aren't completely straight either....
Danny L (2 years ago)
Do You date bisexual girls, Arielle?
luckydude x (2 years ago)
I have a friend who is bisexual and she will marry a guy... Most of the times they marry the opposite sex because it suits them.
luckydude x (2 years ago)
+Lyfe of Kiah It doesn't work like that... This "heaven" thing is ridiculous. You think God (if you believe in him) will send you to "hell" because you fell in love with a girl? There are far more serious things in this world...
Kloutless Kiah (2 years ago)
+Quinn Rogers me, I'm bisexual but my mom keeps saying "just choose a guy so you can go to heaven". She just doesn't get it.
Quinn Rogers (2 years ago)
I have bisexual friends who feel like they have no choice but to marry men to please their religious families, they are victims of homophobia too
LilJennyMenny (2 years ago)
The question I hate the most, is when a guy asks for a threesome. I'm bisexual.. Not a whore.
Jenny (2 years ago)
People are not whores for doing a threesome.
Introverted Outgoing (2 years ago)
your Jersey accent 😅😅😅😅
ur teal with flowers on it is so cute!
Cam's life (2 years ago)
wow, cool, as a bi myself {and the person im dating is also bi}, i am actually able to relate to this because i just recently started telling people im bi :D
idk bro (2 years ago)
It's so damn true. xD
Lil A (2 years ago)
Here's another one: "If you're bisexual, then you're probably just confused."
Angel Hernandez (2 years ago)
Is Amber filming it for u
Jasmine Keyes (2 years ago)
It'd be awesome if she was my teacher
Amazon Goddess (2 years ago)
Great video. Thanks for getting the conversation going. A lot of us that identify as Bi or Pan have learned it is better to just keep our mouths shut and not talk about it since there is so much emotionally charged crap it around it.
Chelsey Holmes (2 years ago)
Have you had a threesome/ will you have a threesome
BlizzardWizard (2 years ago)
#bisexual #bisexualexist
Denise e. (2 years ago)
THANK YOU
cabbage (2 years ago)
I fucking get this on a daily lmao
Nerdlen Reviews (2 years ago)
THANKYOU SO MUCH!
😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
I W T E Y B H OUT!!!!
stuart raiker (2 years ago)
lol thanks for calling this out!
Taii potatoie (2 years ago)
you're bras are pretty
Dead Account (2 years ago)
On fucking point.
Georgia Deane (2 years ago)
ive just found out that one of my friend friend were lesbian so I decided to tell her im bisexual for 5 years. I really like her and I think she judges me for being bi. I feel like that people are think bisexuals r confused and greedy.
Georgia Deane (2 years ago)
*friend's friend
Rümeysa Arıtürk (2 years ago)
Thank you!!!
FEARLovingGirl (2 years ago)
This is SO true!
Jessica Kast-Keat (2 years ago)
Or don't say this one that some have said to me "So you're half gay?" #BiGirlBye
Leathur Rokk (2 years ago)
This illustrates why its SO closeting to be bi in lesbian clubs.....the other women are suspicious if we are bi or gawd forbid we are glam or femmed up...WHY should we feel we should butch it up when that may not be our style? How are we bi chicks supposed to meet ladies if we get treated like some untrustworthy exotic yet "privileged"  "other"??????
Snowninjamonkey 101 (2 years ago)
I met a person that bugs me saying "what bisexual is it a sex desises!?! or a transgender?" I'm bisexual and I'm proud of it
Sara Harris (2 years ago)
this made me feel a little bit better about being bi thank you Arielle <3
Alex Ewald (2 years ago)
"Don't Say This to a Bi-Sexual" I think someone should make a video for you called "Don't Say This to Someone That is Trans"
Courtnie Harrison (2 years ago)
I am a bisexual but if I could date a woman, I would over a man any day. However, I was the first in my class (or school) and fist in my family to come out gay. Instead of being alone and single I date men.. But Trust me I way prefer eating at the V than at the P ;) <3
Jessica Rubidge (2 years ago)
i like her
Havasa (3 years ago)
Me and my friend came out as bi and now our friends are saying things like "Your lesbian" "your straight" "I gotta joke 'bishreckxual' get it, you like ogers!"
shortnik11 (3 years ago)
you have to like one more thoughhhhhhhh
Dominque Austin (3 years ago)
I've had the WORST experience with bisexual girls. Man. I can tell you now I'd never try again.
JoshHQ (2 years ago)
A girl is a girl lol. Who gives a fuck Xd
Dominque Austin (2 years ago)
+Camille Robin well due to my experience I rather not. Because, when I did they always cheated on me for the other team. Team dick. I've tried it out. Not like I'm just being bias.
Benjamin Mills (2 years ago)
+Dominque Austin Same.
Camille Robin (2 years ago)
I don't know what they did to you but it probably was because they were strupid not because they were bi. Do you realize how hard it is for us bisexuals hearing from both the straight and the gay community that "oh man i wouldn't date a bisexual" like tf why?
MELANIE AUFFREY (3 years ago)
This video is insanely accurate! A recently girlfriend I had ACTUALLY told me she always just thought a Bisexual female would just wind up with and/or marrying a guy in the end anyway. Honestly just turned me off. Don't assume. Just because you're attracted to both, it doesn't mean you can't enjoy women more or that they cannot satisfy you on the same level as a man could.
Zales_Starlight (3 years ago)
As a bisexual person, thank you!! :)
Alyssa Liu (3 years ago)
"You're dating a guy? I thought you were bi?" I get this one every time - -'
Quinn City (3 years ago)
i love the people in the comments like "i would never date a bisexual" trust me we do not want to date you either, bisexuals wanting to date you is not a problem you will face a lot in your life.
Jean Michael (3 years ago)
The only thing a bisexual girl can ever be good enough for me is sex. I swear they are the biggest thots and selfish people on the entire planet.
Jodie Armstrong (3 years ago)
okay while I love this video and it is perfect. with perfection comes a minor flaw. The flaw in this one is you say it as if your talking to a women implying that only women can be bisexual when it is men as well...
Crimson (3 years ago)
I've heard almost all of this. It's funny in the "I can't believe someone could be so ignorant" kinda way.... and then you wanna knock some sense into them Lol :)
A Nifty Kitty (2 years ago)
As a bisexual girl, I can say all of these are completely true and it's SO annoying when people say this shit
ˋˏCommieˎˊ (2 years ago)
yeah >.>
great video.
sonia sciara (3 years ago)
you will be the most interesting grandmother
Karina Castro (3 years ago)
fkn truwee
Sip Diamond11 (3 years ago)
I would never agree more
BetterLifeAhead (3 years ago)
THANK YOU!! I've gotten more hate and biphobia from lesbians than from anyone else. It's horrible
Janire Guardado (3 years ago)
I've dated one boy and I'm dating a girl at the moment, and when I told the girl I really liked her she said "I don't fuck with straight girls" and she broke my heart (she seriously didn't believe me cause I have been with a guy) anyway We've been dating for a year now c-:!
A Zeo (3 years ago)
I HAVE SHOES WITH THE EXACT SAME PATTERN THATS ON YOUR HAT! <3
Ali Vanessa (3 years ago)
I know that I'm bisexual, but I hate telling people that because it comes across as not a serious sexual orientation! So I even feel silly saying it because no lie even I find myself judging people when they come out as "bi". Not to mention every bi person I've ever met was a joke, just going through a curious phase, or ended up actually gay. I wish there was another word made up for TRUE bisexuals that have equally liked both gender's since they began even having crushes. I'm streight up 50/50 but nobody sees it as that so alot of judging happens as soon as u say the word bi. not to mention I have had multiple different crushes on Trans people but I don't identify as pan. I feel like I'm a gay person and streight person trapped in the same body and that's the best way I can describe it. I want to just tell people I'm herterohomo lol
Aspen Foxx (3 years ago)
I think the last thing we need in the lgbt+ community is where we attack each other. We need to help out each other instead of oppressing each other. (:
Waldo (3 years ago)
U never stop smiling tho
Angie gg (3 years ago)
:/
Nnn Nnn (3 years ago)
The "straight privilege" for bi people dating a person of the opposite sex is real. I'm not saying bi people are looking for that privilege, but it is real. They won't get shit on the street PDA or any public/bureaucratic situation. So that is a valid point to say and "complain", denying it it's like denying white privilege.
chris latin (3 years ago)
its still a stupid and overt thing to say. everyone knows this. does that suddenly excommunicate bi people from the lgbtq community.
Quirks and Features (3 years ago)
I'm a Bi male where can I meet Bi girls in my area liverpool
Marisa Moren (3 years ago)
you should make a vid about all the props to being a lesbian XD
Jayda D'Amico (3 years ago)
Please do a dear lesbians love bisexuals
Maija Adel (3 years ago)
Everything is true about this. Everything. Oh my gosh. Thank you!!
I'm bi and I totally agree with everything you're saying, because I would usually get really pissed if someone talked to me like that.
kirsty reid (3 years ago)
love you #gaypride follow me on twitter please @99reid
Elizabeth Walk (3 years ago)
Also whoa! Nice view out your window! I can totally see it the reflection in your glasses!
Elizabeth Walk (3 years ago)
Arielle figured it out!!! And now everyone else can too! BUT! Another thing I loved was the "not seeing these situations reasons to feel like a victim." Food for thought for me. Meaning, really, "don't get mad instantaneously every time someone asks an ignorant question. First, take a breath, understand ignorance can be cured and that this person isn't an asshole just because he asked one stupid. question. Then, answer the question calmly. Last, tell them never to ask that question again. Because now they know the answer." I'll take this advice to heart.
Ayden (3 years ago)
I don't agree, i'd rather be violent and hurt people. :)
Spiffy Turtle (3 years ago)
Must be a generational thing. In the old days, we were proud of our Lesbian status, now everyone is Bisexual or Pansexual. Glad Ima outta the dating game at my age so I don't have to deal with 2nd hand dick with every chica out there.
Spiffy Turtle (3 years ago)
+chris latin   If you laugh at the truth, go for it
chris latin (3 years ago)
holy mother earth... do I laugh or what?

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