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"Don't shoot for hotter girls than your skills allow!" TRUE OR NOT? #AskTheNaturals 024

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Should you stick to girls which match your seduction skills or try to go for 9s and 10s everytime? James Marshall answers questions in exclusive product webinar. FREE BONUS VIDEO: Watch James Marshall picking up a girl waiting for her date: http://www.tnl-secrets.com/flawless The Natural Lifestyles is the leading elite dating company on the planet. We give dating advice to guys for over a decade with phenomenal results. Our live workshops in New York, Barcelona, Melbourne, Sydney, Budapest etc. are highly requested and offer a life changing experience! Only around 80 guys can be taught live each year. Do you want to step out of your fear and start a new life? Check our homepage for more infos: ✩ Website: http://www.thenaturallifestyles.com ✩ Instagram: http://instagr.am/thenaturallifestyles ✩ Facebook: http://facebook.com/thenaturallifestyles Do you have lifestyles/seduction/dating/sex related questions? Comment on our videos or send us a message on instagram or facebook and we will answer your question in the #AskTheNaturals format! Questions about workshops or online products? Go here: https://www.thenaturallifestyles.com/contact/
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emile (6 months ago)
6:04 a classic example of a Freudian slip
Bob Black (7 months ago)
Thank you for being so thorough in your answers. The depth of knowledge is extremely helpful. You always take time and care with your responses.
evolver (10 months ago)
Great advice. Makes a lot of sense. Thank you.
Desmond (1 year ago)
Question: I agree that there are levels and I cannot jump straight to a 9 or 10 as I am not at that skill level yet. However, I do find that when talking to 5's and 6's that my inner drive to want to fuck them isn't as genuine, the interaction on my end feels a bit forced like I'm going through the motions for the sole purpose of learning so I can climb the ladder. So my question is, have you experienced this? Any tips? Could this be my ego getting in the way? I really feel like this is holding me back from progressing quicker. Thank you! #AskTheNaturals
Varun Prasad (2 months ago)
I have the same problem... Yes I'm still doing more of the porn thingy than I should.. Ill work on minimising it more..
jstanothabludyalbert (1 year ago)
Desmond quit porn and stop masturbating
diango73 (1 year ago)
Thx for the video!
Fabzil (1 year ago)
God damned Blacksmiths! >-(
AlecksJP (1 year ago)
Hey James, I've been buying products from so many life coaches and watching so many you tube videos about it. But the only time when i got a real result, was watching one of your videos only one. I just meet this amazing woman 3 weeks ago and we have been dating and more. I just approached to her (and I made a quick introspection before that, to detect any feer or anxiety) and the rest was great. So thanks for sharing your knoledge. I´m a musician as well so I feel very identify at sometimes. Cheers from Costa Rica.
TheClassic Gents (1 year ago)
Love the video like always.
X Yancy (1 year ago)
Do you guys have any more in depth tips for night game? I've watched a ton of your videos but you guys don't really have much on night game as far as clubs, parties etc. I'm fine with day game but I struggle with night because you can't converse the same way and I don't really know where to start.
ThiefKingofLegend (1 year ago)
Dated a perfect 10 looks wise, personality wasn't amazing. Lost her, learning relo game now.
krishnan unni (1 year ago)
hello james....if u can explain d difference between being comfortable within our selfes and constantly improving our core.....if one is comfortable within himself why should he desire to improve.....isnt tht coming from d thought tht im not enough??
Leo Ket (1 year ago)
Hi James, how about that russian model who chose you when you were broke musician instead of some rich guy who offered everything to her? So how were you able from that situation to pull that super high status woman? does this mean i can do the same if i just have super good game? im broke 20 yo and virgin hahah :-)
Yes of course, game and heart can trump almost anything. It's important to go for moon shot goals and women aren't looking for a perfect superman but often your experience and skill or major tangible limitations (logistics, money, distance etc) can result in lower results with high self esteem/option women.
Leo Ket (1 year ago)
Hi James, how about that russian model who chose you when you were broke musician instead of some rich guy who offered everything to her? So how were you able from that situation to pull that super high status woman? does this mean i can do the same if i just have super good game? im broke 20 yo and virgin hahah :-)
slaQ83 (1 year ago)
The Viggo Mortensen of dating...
Wasim Social Game (1 year ago)
you mom is a sausy six
Life of MaMuT (1 year ago)
Evolution Daily, he is very natural at picking up girls. Watched all his videos today! And he is fun too.
Samuel xD Townson (1 year ago)
My confidence seems to go up talking to hot girls... Because I'm very receptive to who I chatting to... Hot girls ooze confidence, I may not pull or do so well... But I'm learning that once you see Women as women, and not 2's/10's it get's alot easier. And that natural attraction you feel toward hotter girls will litterally make things easier, without even trying she can obviously tell your attracted to her. xD (No need to show sexual intent if you getting a semi just looking at her lol)
Ramoz J (1 year ago)
Samuel xD same same dude.Some guys aim high then you get high value guys that dumpster dive all the time yet go to shit with hot chicks.I see it here in Melbourne alot.If you get a hot chick they are outraged meanwhile they bask in the attention of 5 and 6 who hit on them but can't approach an 8.There are way more good looking dudes going out with chicks below them in Melbourne than anywhere I've seen..It's a chubby girls paradise
D. Edun (1 year ago)
#AskTheNaturals so first of all thanks for sharing these free videos with us, it's very appreciated! My question is: I have been actively 'seducing' for about 10 months now, and have seen good results in terms of women and personal growth. However, there's a bit of a problem, which is obsession with the whole thing. I know James has talked about it before and it seems to be something that would happen when you make the decision to improve an area of your life. But how have you guys gone about reducing the obsession to game and not losing sight of the fact you want to connect to people more and not just going after women the vast majority of time? PS James have you thought about being a comedian? Your videos always make me crease 😂 #AskTheNaturals
It's fine to obsess for a year or 2, doing intense work in this area is recommended but you need to find balance long term between seduction, inner game and lifestyle
Albert Nel (1 year ago)
James, I have to ask, have you been to South Africa? Like you said in your opinion (your taste in women) Belgrade has some of the most beautiful women, but I feel exactly the same way about SA. The average is just waaay higher than in many other countries in the world.
Cole Batis (1 year ago)
Albert Nel I'm from South Africa, we have very hot girls but very few of them and almost all of them are taken
Haven't been, heard good reports
Billy Buttlord (1 year ago)
i shot for a hotter girl than my skills allowed and it went badly wrong
Emma Lindberg (1 year ago)
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Gus Fring (1 year ago)
This guy looks like rick from walking dead
ArnoKom (1 year ago)
Good Video James but how do you define being ready for an exetremely beautiful girl. If i got you right you said that you're ready if you can offer her good sex, touch her in the right way and probably handle her in a way that makes her want to see you again. However, for me there's a difference between the skill of picking her up and keeping her. One can be an extremely good pua and get the hottest women but then isn't able to date them again but the opposite is also possible. Lets say you are a shitty pua but get lucky and get a 10 and you have a lot of female friends so you know how to handle women. Also youre ok in bed. She might still want to see you. I say this because it happened to me when i first started. So what do you think makes the difference when it comes to just picking her up? What qualities do you think are the most important to get a high quality girl into bed?
ArnoKom (1 year ago)
nice
ok yes there are certainly major differences in behaviour and mindsets. Will do extended vid later
ArnoKom (1 year ago)
Ok thanks! It's a difficult topic. What i was trying to ask is what you think are the quality/characterwise differences you observed between guys who you think don't "deserve" stunners yet and those who do. Maybe it could be an interesting topic for a video, otherwise nevermind!
I'm not saying never approach technically hot girls, just don't exclusively do that and expect to get them. Go for the stunners and test yourself often, the rest of the time get experience in understanding women and sex.
i love you man. i seriously do. I first came across the concept of pickup through rsd videos. i've always found their views of women "game" and life in general to be extremely restrictive and quite repulsive at times. though i couldn't argue that they were able to do what i wanted to be able to do and so i had no choice but to learn from them. i am truly thankful to have found your channel and to have the opportunity to learn from someone with such a nuanced, holistic and rather egalitarian worldview. thank you for stepping up and sharing your thoughts and ideas with the world. even though i am constantly driven to question the idea of "improvement" and making thinks "better" since it all seems so very relative to me, i do believe you can think of yourself as someone who does his part in making the world a little bit of a better place. with most sincere regards tarik
Thanks man, your support is appreciated.
SinandLerd (1 year ago)
Well it's said that when the Vikings pillaged other countries they took the hot women with them. So now where they lived the genpool is full of hot women.

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