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Secretly Wanting To Be Fucked - Top and Bottom Hate

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Many people in the gay community are afraid to admit they want to be the bottom. Why is there so much hate towards bottoms and idolizing tops? Davey : http://www.youtube.com/daveywavey GIRLFRIENDS : http://bit.ly/SubscribeToGirlfriends PLEASE SUBSCRIBE :) http://bit.ly/SubscribeToArielle LAST VIDS : http://bit.ly/PissOffYourGf // http://bit.ly/MeetMyGirlfriend TWITTER : ‪‪‪http://twitter.com/arielleishammin‬‬‬ FACEBOOK : ‪‪‪http://facebook.com/arielleishamming‬‬ T SHIRTS : ‪‪‪http://www.districtlines.com/arielleishamming‬‬ ‬ SNAIL MAIL : Arielle Scarcella P.O. Box 280154 Brooklyn, NY 11228-154 _______________________________
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Laura Reid (4 months ago)
bottom/versatile
Felipe Barrabino (5 months ago)
Im only bottom
Hawon Song (6 months ago)
If ya have world full of only tops who'll ya fuck
Angelus Umbra (7 months ago)
Maybe it doesn't matter to me because I'm a straight guy, but I don't get why people care so fucking much. You like what you like, leave it at that, and stop worrying about what others like.
Shi Sama (9 months ago)
prety much a TOTAL BOTTOM lol. My late GF never made me feel bad about it because she thought it was so cute. Also fun fact my GF was a bottom (im thinking Vers. Bottom now.) but I was such a submissive person it made her want to top me lol so bottom-bottom can work just depends.
Skylar Sword (11 months ago)
How do I know which kind i am?
Dolly Banks (1 year ago)
Bottom
Fiona Rodriguez (1 year ago)
I'm a top, more of a touch me not actually
kendraklopfenstein (1 year ago)
I'm a switch and no one ever talks about us am I alone?
Libby Johnston (1 year ago)
I think Bears are a perfect representation of masculinity, but who can and are bottoms as well. It would be interesting if you interesting if you interviewed a bear and got their imput on the issue.
Collin Andrews (1 year ago)
I've never had sex, so I don't know yet.
Jess Angel (1 year ago)
i am a top lesbian:)
Seth Elliott (1 year ago)
I switch
Damian Lillard (1 year ago)
fuck you clickbait
Kaeleigh Ray (1 year ago)
I am a fem bisexual and a top. I like sharing responsibility in a relationship, in all aspects, so I would prefer to be in relationships with someone who would swich with me sometimes. I end up dating men more seriously than women though, because all of my past girlfriends have been pillow princesses who would not go down on me and some wouldn't even finger me. Don't get me wrong, I love giving, but after a certain point, especially if your monogamous, you get sick of having to give yourself an orgasm on your own and then have to give another person an orgasm. After a while in a relationship, or just fooling around with someone it makes you question if they give a shit about you, or their sexuality or yourself. Its unfair and it makes me grumpy, but I really avoid bottom shaming, because I'm bisexual and I have been the target of the shame game whenever I am in an queer woman's space.
Kyd (1 year ago)
Bottom Lives Matter
Romy VDD (1 year ago)
love it
yassmina compy (1 year ago)
both
Eterna Mortal (1 year ago)
I'm a top and a bottom. I like balance.
Joas Radiomann (1 year ago)
I'm in love with Stevie
Mike H (1 year ago)
bottom!
Joas Radiomann (1 year ago)
I hate you. No I actually want you haha jkn
Pat Zorko (1 year ago)
Hey Enzo, I can't tell if your trolling, overtly curious or a throw back to evolutionary psychosis but, I'll tell what is really decent...KEEP IT TO YOURSELF once in a while. On a Kinsey scale absolute hetero or homosexuality DOES NOT EXIST. Read a book once in a while. The world is much bigger than your bakery which I'm sure is not about to make wedding cakes for "certain" people. But hey, it is your right to be an ill informed , opinionated jack ass. Cheers mate.
Mykah Heaslip (1 year ago)
Switch, but mostly bottom. I suck at topping tbh.
Joas Radiomann (1 year ago)
Top all the way. just bottomed a hour prior this comment to make my partner happy... at least one of us enjoyed it haha
Carmelita Rose (2 years ago)
I feel very verse .. I love giving cuz it's hot knowing I can make her feel a certain way but I also like receiving cuz dominance is hot af
Acouelle Dix (2 years ago)
I actually don't really get all this top/bottom stuff (I'm french and noone talk about this here when it sound like the biggest deal in the USA) . When I'm having sex with I don't want to just stay at the «bottom» or the «top» all the time. Sex to me is like a perfect improvised dance where you can take the lead then give it to your partner, take it back or losing yourself. You can fight and give yourself. Most of the girls I've been were thinking the same this and the one time I had sex with what sounds like a strict «top» I got super bored whenever I'm not a «top» myself i don't see the use of these labels :/
Shi Sama (9 months ago)
Sounds like you may be versatile or a switch.
Kaeleigh Ray (1 year ago)
Why can't we all be French when we are between the sheets. The world would be a happier place.
Maggie O'Moore (2 years ago)
"I think Thelma is a fat chick's name"......... No worries
SoraHikari Chan (2 years ago)
Idk what I am.. honestly I think I'm to scared to dissapoint people so I just go down and there like I'm tired and I'm like.. me to 😳😭🙏🏻 I gotta work on that 😂👏🏻
Shelby Moser (2 years ago)
The Answer: Power Bottom. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
태용 TaeYong (2 years ago)
Lesbian; Top
Neil Mackinnon (2 years ago)
it's not a mini cooper, it's just a mini
I Like Cheese (2 years ago)
100% bottom 😗
Super Hooah (2 years ago)
Same
Tk J (2 years ago)
I'm Bi and both but mostly a top.
Joas Radiomann (1 year ago)
high five
IsDarkChain (2 years ago)
Lol i think i'm both lmao i like to fuck and being fucked so lmao
dead inside (2 years ago)
im versatile too lol we're getting the best of both worlds lmao
Charlotte Jenkins (2 years ago)
Same
Hallu Cinogen (2 years ago)
And now it hit me that I'm a bottom.
John Pope (2 years ago)
top
Person Al (2 years ago)
Lol strang I'm so chill telling people I'm a bottom
noelle mace (2 years ago)
why are bisexuals looked down upon?? it bothers me so much
Kaeleigh Ray (1 year ago)
Or that we're all sluts and that we can't be monogamous.
태용 TaeYong (2 years ago)
Because everyone just thinks they are sexually confused.
Wolkee Cloud (2 years ago)
Well i hadn't had sex yet, but thinking about a girl going down on me makes me soo uncomfortable. Also I like seeing girls "getting pleasured" (in movies). Right now I think I'm this "do-not-touch-me-girl" but maybe i'm just uncomfortable with my body
Sophie Luvs Books (2 years ago)
Well I'm a straight girl who is a virgin. I'm also 14 so I don't see myself having sex for a long time. But I guess I'd see myself being a bottom a lot of the time and letting the guy take control but I feel like I wouldn't mind being a top once in a while. But who knows.
Inactive (2 years ago)
honestly I'm a straight guy and still a virgin but I think I know myself enough to say I'd be a bottom..... or rather the submissive partner sexually. idk just my thoughts
Joas Radiomann (1 year ago)
I know lots of straight guys who enjoy more prostate orgasm and get f*cked in the bum by their girlfriend. They're called Bend Over Boyfriends if I'm not wrong.
Natily Riggs (2 years ago)
bottom
Tyler_Skittles_Sky (2 years ago)
Can you be both? If so that's what I am
Nu'blessed (2 years ago)
+Brin Rasmussen You're versatile! for some reason they completely glossed over that in this vid.
Are you Kidding me? (2 years ago)
I thought that was a switch. Or is that in bdsm only?
fuzzie2000sh (2 years ago)
im both too
brooklynsworld (2 years ago)
yeah! its called a verse i believe. idk what i am tho
Abby Byrne (2 years ago)
For me it depends on who I'm with I'll take control but it's honestly up to my partner
Misty Hughes (2 years ago)
I am a virgin but I am a Lesbian. And I am a bottom, but I get confused as a top and get called butch because I am a tomboi. I feel better in boyish clothes but I dont like being the top or dom in a relationship, I have been before but its not me.
neutrino78x (2 years ago)
hmm that's weird. Well I am mostly straight; I've had obsessive crushes on women but I've never had romantic feelings toward a man. I've seen men I want to sleep with, but there's no romantic component to it. Of course I wouldn't have sex with anyone if it wasn't meaningful (and no one wants that with me, hence I'm still a straight male virgin at age 38). But since I prefer women, bottoms are more attractive to me. I love androgyny, both men who look like women and women who look like men. :) I think all three people in this vid are very attractive. :) So, does this men that gay male tops prefer other gay male tops? Obviously it goes by the individual but I'm just asking in general. I always assumed that gay male tops would be into gay male bottoms. :) I've always agreed with the guy in Race You to the Bottom: I prefer my women aggressive and my men submissive. lmao :)
qoddess36 (2 years ago)
My girlfriend tries act and be more dominant because she wants to be but she is really really submissive. People assume she's dom and I'm sub because I'm way more shy and girly in our relationship but it's really the opposite.
Tori Fletcher (2 years ago)
It depends. If i want to fuck a girl then I'm a top but if I want to get kinky then I'm a bottom.
Rational Lunatic (2 years ago)
depends .If with a girl then Im a top if with a guy Im a bottom .Now if there genderqueer I'll cross that bridge when I get there
Skemo Civisc (3 years ago)
Depends who i'm with. I like being both!
Jaimmy Jury (3 years ago)
titty sucking is really fun!!!!
Jaimmy Jury (3 years ago)
BOTTOMING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Darissa Pryor (3 years ago)
Top for sure!!
Savannah King (3 years ago)
Literally never knew they dated. My mind is very blown.
Phedra Nelson (3 years ago)
top 4 liiiiiiife!
C. Fernanda López (3 years ago)
proudly both! but it took me a while to live it
KT dubs (3 years ago)
i'm 50/50 i love giving and receiving, i'll definitely give first cause it turns me on when they like it
Angelus Umbra (7 months ago)
100% agree
DeadAlcoholZombie (3 years ago)
Thelma is  a big chick name :D Thank yout for making me crack whenever I'll meet a Thelma from now on. xD
Tia Ducharme (3 years ago)
I go both ways tbh but I died when Stevie was like "Thelma and Louise, the right one is bigger and named Thelma cause Thelma is a fat chick name"
Rachel Smith (3 years ago)
I'm neither, I enjoy both but the person I'm was with struggled with the fact that she wanted to be fucked by me that ultimately ended us 😢! Now in my city it's hard to find some1 that likes what I do so now I feel stuck! Super 😢 what to do now
Crimson (3 years ago)
I used to be a bottom but in the relationship I have now I'm a top and bottom whenever!
Sebastian Michaelis (3 years ago)
I like switching it ;)
Bree MHeart (3 years ago)
proud to be a bottom
homestucks everywhere (3 years ago)
i guess for my first time i would be a bottom because i dont even know how to please myself let alone another person but as i get more experienced i would start to become a top.
homestucks everywhere (3 years ago)
+homestucks everywhere of i forgot to mention im a virgin.
meagan dorsey (3 years ago)
You know I was always the aggressor and it is fun being a top, but I had one ex who would always top me, and I became a total power bottom in that relationship and you know what I have no complaints, because it is amazing. Somebody topping you makes you feel just how much the other person really wants you, and let's be real after that you are going to want to turn the tables and show them just how much you want and appreciate them and top them. Relationships are all give and take so don't be a pillow princess and get too comfortable at the bottom, and don't feel obligated by whatever community shaming makes you feel like you have to top. Just remember Sex is about two people creating pleasure, connection, and love, of fulfilling something primal within ourselves.*;)*
Skylar Sword (11 months ago)
meagan dorsey omg I love this so much
meagan dorsey (3 years ago)
+homestucks everywhere  Thanks, Luv*<3*
homestucks everywhere (3 years ago)
+meagan dorsey i very much enjoy this comment (:
Kayla Ludivig (3 years ago)
Nice air force stripes on the wall behind you!
Lauren Kaunra (3 years ago)
I'm a seme
Lauren Kaunra (3 years ago)
Top:seme Bottom: uke Doesn't matter:seke
Meg Pond (3 years ago)
Bottom! I can be a top when I want to be though.
LiniPocky (3 years ago)
I'm a lesbian and I'm Top ... my Girlfriend is pretty happy about that :D :P
Fiona Gordon (3 years ago)
I'm 100% a bottom for sure 👍🏼
Miss. Tina (3 years ago)
Definitely both
maxim100 (3 years ago)
I dont know about western countries but what ive notice is like this India, Thailand, Phillipines have more bottoms while Arab countries Indonesia have more tops Is jus my guess on what ive notice on online dating sites
Idalis Bowman (3 years ago)
I fee like I would be a bottom
lili (3 years ago)
can you be a straight top girl?
PrincessKLS (3 years ago)
It seems no matter where a man is on the spectrum they are, if they are a bottom they are looked down upon.
Daniel Allen (3 years ago)
I'm a gay boy and a bottom.
Arielle Vachon (3 years ago)
PROUD BOTTOM YASS
gothickah9 (3 years ago)
I'm a Transsexual women I prefer topping and topping is something that most girls are against in the trans community and brought down. I believe whether you like topping or bottoming it doesn't make you more or less of a woman. You are who you are regardless.
The Scientist (3 years ago)
Versatile but, prefer to be a bottom. Of the people I know, many think being a bottom is just lazy. It's hot. I see no issue lol
Tristan de Sade (3 years ago)
What about so many versatile people?😡 And I think there is another thing we are missing here - does it not make sense that tops like bottoms?😏 And whether someone is a masculine or feminine does not tell whether someone is a top or bottom (or versatile)?😲 And, why do we forget that someone can be masculine bottom and like to be fucked by feminine guys (even if rarely?)😁 I'm a masculine bisexual top and I like feminine bottoms - but since bisexuals, tops, and guys who like feminine guys do not exist anyway, why should anyone care what I think???😕
Ally27 (3 years ago)
Total bottom .... I don't see what's wrong with it! I think bottoms are hot!
maggiowens (3 years ago)
I'm a bottom and proud of it!
sunny sone (3 years ago)
i love both, being topped is awesome. i think most people are afraid of admitting it
PastelDanAndPhil (3 years ago)
I'm a bottom but wouldn't mind giving back a little so mostly bottom a little top
Cynthia Padilla (3 years ago)
I'm a lesbian and a top.
Diana Pennycook (3 years ago)
I'm bi, and I have acted in both roles.  They're both fun but definitely depends on whomever you're getting with at the time :)  
Hanneke le Roux (3 years ago)
I definitely prefer to be the bottom but I do like to mix it up every now and then though. I definitely get the whole “not gay enough” thing though, because I’m pretty feminine and lots of lesbians seem to be almost wary of my gayness... like it might flit away or something. Being a bottom doesn’t help
Kaeleigh Ray (1 year ago)
Do you mind if I ask how much is every once in a while on the mixing it up scale? None of my girlfriends(who were bottoms) have ever gone down on me, and that a total deal breaker for me even though I enjoy being a top. Do you have to date someone or a certain amount of time to be comfortable topping them, or once a month or something like that. I always feel hurt when a girl I'm committed to doesn't want to have sex with me, especially when I want to show them how much I love them in all ways. Since I haven't had a girlfriend in a while I could use some perspective on this issue.
adam lewis (3 years ago)
I am ⬆️ ⬇️ are hot though, what would i do with out them
Kay Essar (3 years ago)
I really don't see the stigma? But then, I'm not deeply enmeshed in the community. I bottomed first and gave it an honest try for several months, but once my boyfriend and I switched it up that changed pretty fast. These days I would say I'm vers-top? I'd bottom if the mood was right, but it's not my default setting.
Courtney Pifer (4 years ago)
I guess as a lesbian versatility is more common.
Alvar Amsel (4 years ago)
Bottom /.\ Hehhehhh :**
Haylee Mitchell (4 years ago)
I am pansexual, but am in no way a bottom, I am controling, strong and hate penatration so....
Brandon Taylor (4 years ago)
I am a bisexual top, and I will fuck both of you in the ass! :)
Alternative Aesthetic (4 years ago)
Bottom 4 eva!!!!
raventiques (4 years ago)
total bottom
PDS_Ginger (4 years ago)
I don't really know. I'm a bi virgin. lol
Cormdawg (4 years ago)
Are all the people in this video bottoms?
Paris Parker (4 years ago)
I'm a total bottom!!!
Gizmos Monster (4 years ago)
I am a virgin but i dont wanna top :s also on a gay dating website, 80% of the guys i check out are bottoms :p
MrJustonemorevoice (4 years ago)
I'm a guy, like being dominated by women. But because I'm in shape and have kind of a forceful personality people always assume I'm dominant. 
Stirling Bear (4 years ago)
well im a top and a bottom depends on the girl i date but over all im a top. where im at theres alot of bottom and i love it. :)

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